Deborah Steinberg

Tarot Goodness for the Week of February 20th-26th: The Flame (Suit of Wands)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-02-18T19:51:10Z

I dunno but whatever happened from Thursday through Sunday of last week has certainly propelled some of you into this week with determination, raised spirits, and the warm and radiant energy and passion y'all will need to do what you feel needs to be done. Or said. Signs of passion, interest, enjoyment, and life abound. With the Flame, rest assured as well that some passionate types are gonna be connecting with other passionate types.

Personally, I interpret the Flame to mean the soul or core. So, yeah, souls and cores will be awakening all around, with as bright as ever.

But this doesn't mean that a great big ol' orgy will result so do not fear-- what it means, rather, is that people with common passions, goals, thoughts, perceptions are gonna bring to life certain things, like projects or, well, changes around here for fuck's sake.

Some of you are gonna be glowing when all is said and done. Maybe you'll even get a glowing recommendation? That's one of things we get out of a good roaring fire, isnt' it? The glow? Brightness, coziness, light. Heat. Don't we need heat to cook or, well, get thing's cooking?

Boy, will things be cooking.

Fire also burns and purifies so start throwing whatever shit you can do without for the rest of ever into the damn pit. Work with this element.

My guess-- and it's just a guess-- is that some people are going to be pissed off (at least a little) by the connections that will be taking place amongst people with shared goals. Well, this is what happens when you don't believe in something or someone, and you let them go or ignore them. Eventually someone else will believe in them and in their abilities and add power or fuel or "firewood" to 'em.

So, then, one suggestion will be that we don't allow our silly little useless tempers to get out of control. Think about what a raging, uncontrolled fire does. Tame and control your inner-fire. Exercise. Do something. Put your energy to decent use instead of shitting on someone else, or "hating" on anyone (so not attractive, or effective, and there's really no point to any of that stuff). Jealousy or possessiveness is not going to be "hot" any way you slice it.

Easier said than done considering the hot or controversial topics that come up this week.

Having brought up firewood, I'll add that it is important to feed and nourish yourselves and your spirits and minds and hearts for so long as you wish to keep that fire within alive. No one but you is responsible for your own inner-fire.

Anyway, it's that fire that's gonna get you through the worst, get you ahead, get you where you want to be, so manage it well. Don't overdo anything (which often comes with overestimating oneself). You don't push the Flame, folks. Pushing the Flame means a face-plant sometime after you've told yourself all about how hot, sexy, on-fire, and unstoppable you are.

Either a new interest in something or someone will develop, or an old interest in something or someone will resurrect.

Interest is good. Interest is what will keep us going. If we're not truly interested in something or someone, what more can I say than it will show.

Efforts will be commended.

This card is not about coming across as perfect. It is about showing signs of life. Showing interest. Making an effort. Exhibiting a certain spark. Performing quality work. The point is to learn, and then show that we are learning (or have learned).

Those of us who need a kick in the ass, this is the card for you!

Those of you who can provide a much-needed kick in the ass, this card is for you, too!

Remember that anyone can have an amazing start at something or make a great first impression. The keys are to be genuine and to maintain that amazingness (or be consistent).

Interest and passion produce amazing work and results.

Interest and passion in others can sometimes make them better people. Or better at something because it comes about as encouragement.  That's not a promise or fact-- how you tend to your fire matters first.  But mutual encouragement and support does show. Think about relationships, and how some people might let themselves go and not feel motivated to do anything at all. Why do you think that is?

Not everyone does let themselves go-- some people do accomplish great things, or they better themselves in ways they've only wished. Don't assume that certain kinds of relationships become stale because that's just what happens because your girlfriends or guyfriends or some douchebag advice columnist say(s) this is so. Some girlfriends or guyfriends or advice columnists are stupid, not to mention that even respectable flabby people sitting on their self-proclaimed thrones sell this shit-- and, yes, they're also really fucking stupid.

Besides, if you do let yourselves go, or if something has worsened or is not changing for the better, then this has more to do with a problem that existed before you entered a relationship or partnership.  (Or project, activity, endeavor, etc.) This is why, before we proceed with something that's more important and significant than grabbing that poop-latte at Starbuck's you can't live without, some should probably feel strong and fiery within. That fire, or a lack of it, will make itself known when shit hits the fan. How resilient will you be then?

I guess what I'm trying to say is... don't believe the hype. Stick to what works for you and your relationships. You may even have a niche that's going really great for you, because you're not one of those Oprah or Dr. Phil glorifiers and worshippers who can't think their own thoughts (though watching Maury Povich is fun sometimes). Don't start believing that something might be wrong with you or your relationships because an outsider says or believes this to be so. You'll know it for yourself with this card if your relationships or behaviors are shitty. Oh, you'll know it, because the energy associated with it is direct. There's no guesswork involved here. It's in your face.

It could be that some people are just jealous and/or fucked in the head, too. I mean I mentioned a few cards ago that sweet-talkers are only interested in figuring out how they can stab you in the back, where your weak spots are, and how they can make you look like an awful person-- even though some of us are doing nothing to deserve that. It's kind of like there's a weird and desperate game of survival going on. Skeevy shit's going around, again, and people are gonna be sneaky, but all of this only works on people who are unaware, who have no fucking clue, or who don't make use of their intuition or instincts because they're too busy trying to make the best impression possible.

So my advice then is take certain behaviors and statements with a grain of salt, keep your business to yourselves, don't worry about what power suit you wear, and don't let anyone pee on your parade.

And to those of you who want to know if you'll be successful at this, that or the other, I ask: is there interest and passion present? Your answer to the latter will be your answer to the former. Probably shouldn't do anything for the sake of doing it.

Have an awesome week, fiery friends!

Tarot Goodness for the Week of February 13th-19th: The Moon

Deb Steinberg — 2012-02-12T20:06:05Z

Unfortunately, I think that even if some cover all their bases via the traditional route-- red flowers, pink hearts, Hallmark card, jewelry, dinner-- gestures may all feel a little half-assed. Because it's what most others are doing so these things lack thought, originality, meaning and any real effort. Calling 1-800-FLOWERS is not exactly difficult.

All of this is due to the energies of the Moon. These are feminine energies that run deep, so, yes, women will be large and in charge and in faces (hopefully not in mine if you know what's good for you). But I suggest thinking deep, too.

Gestures should come from a deep, considerate, wholesome place. Make something for someone else. Make time for a special someone-- not your Blackberry-- over a meal. Talk about each other, not that "royal bitch" or "asshole" at work or about those problems dragging you down, puss face. Show others that they are worth your energy and creativity. Hold hands. Hug. Hold and appreciate each other. Protect each other-- give protection and feel it. Go somewhere you won't have to hear an argument or bitter discussion between another couple unfolding at the next table (there could be quite a bit of that this year-- some people just aren't satisfied). Try to make sure that gifts mean something, that they tell a recipient that you are LISTENING, understanding them, and that you genuinely care about how they feel about things and where they are in life. (This is so very important.)

Sometimes red roses don't cut it. However, maybe that snowglobe that brings the apple of your eye a happy childhood memory could do the trick. If that seems stupid, try a handwritten love letter... or saying something wonderful. You'll figure out how to make others think and feel through what you give them.

The point is, this week isn't about the usual or ordinary or what's supposed to happen. Trust me, with the Moon in play here there will be absolutely nothing "supposed to" about anything. This should have happened-- nope.

This should be this way-- uh uh.

He/she should feel this way about me because... -- not a chance.

It would be wise of us to follow our guts. Honor our intuition and/or exercise it. Be grateful for it, protect it from "vampires". Some of us might learn of "vampires", stalkers, nuts, serial killers, hidden affairs, fucked up intentions, mysteries, and, of course, secrets.

Don't leave yourself open and vulnerable to shit, what else can I tell you here?

Some might be working the night shift. Try to exhibit some amount caution while commuting, traveling, socializing, etc, at night.

Nighttime will be power time. Oh, yes.

Don't make ass-umptions. Don't let anyone fool you into believing something (perhaps about another person) that is just not so, not real.

Careful with drugs, drug cocktails, mixing drugs with alcohol. Taking drugs for stupid reasons.

Withdrawal and/or rehab is probably gonna be necessary for some as certain habits/addictions are showing signs of interfering with your day-to-day routines, and, of course, obligations.

And by the way, I wouldn't take any chances on a big no-no even if I think I'm not gonna get caught ever.

I also wouldn't count on discovering a cause or root to an issue, a behavior or a concern. At this point, some roots and causes don't deserve our worry.

As for other roots and causes, well, we know what they are. Some just prefer to deny it all in favor of something that makes them happy, of making their situations seem pleasant and just fine and dandy.

It is what it is, some are who they are. Next!

Take note of those dreams, folks.

Privacy and quiet (perhaps deep breathing and just a few minutes of meditation each day) make for the ability to focus and ground oneself. It's OK to tune-out (in a healthy way). Draw the blinds, turn off the phones, put on some soothing music.

AS we are dealing with heavier than usual energy, it's normal to experience a somber mood, and perhaps for the waterworks to go on. After all, this IS the cold, very sensitive and intoxicating Moon card, and the scene is dark, somewhat creepy, intimate, maybe sexy. I hope the waterworks come from a sentimental or grateful place versus heartbreak.

But if you do find yourself heartbroken, this is actually a good time for healing, moving on and maturing. Take the opportunity. Sometimes there simply is no closure, it's not something that a magician can or will conjure up for us, and we need to close certain doors and draw up whatever choice or conclusion makes the most sense ourselves.

If you need the help of a counselor for this, that's fine. Some roads can be scary to walk through alone.

Drink LOTS of fluids.

Creative types can turn the week's energies into some amazing writing, songs, art, food/desserts, and other projects. Try fluid movements as well, like those you might find in yoga, dance, martial arts. Why not.

Whatever comes naturally to you is probably the best thing, as is withdrawing.

Have an awesome week!

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Weekend Tarot Goodness: Reversed Queen (Reversed Empress)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-02-08T07:14:35Z

♪♫ "Psycho mom, psycho mom, psycho mooom..." ♪♫

OK. Maybe we won't all be dealing with a psycho mom or putting out the fire that is baby mama drama but there is still definitely the likelihood of becoming involved in some batshit craziness that includes either another woman, a plain drama queen, a needy/clingy or obsessive/compulsive and/or violent type, earthly destruction, abuse or manipulation, jealousy or possessiveness, nasty gossip, betrayal, victimization, guilt, obligation, or, well, a member of the feminine half of the zodiac (Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, or Pisces). Some people will feel overwhelmed, depressed, unloved, lonely, neurotic, and they may nag and become demanding, aggressive, pushy, feisty, and/or hormonal.

See what I mean about this weekend potentially having the makings of a Lifetime movie now?

And I'm not... What the hell is that word? A misogynist. I'm not a misogynist, and I do have close friends who fit into the feminine slots of the zodiac. So don't assume that I hate anyone here (for example, I think Virgos are awesome), I am just stating the obvious. After all, that is a heavily feminine card up there, it is reversed, I'm going with it, and... that's that.

At minimum, what the reversed Queen/Empress represents is emotional eating, disappointment, and/or dissatisfaction. A void, especially a love-related void. No matter how much some acquire, and how good things look on paper, and how fabulously impressive they feel their Facebook status updates are, all this effort is not going to be enough.

So that when all is said and done, you may hear some people coming up with ridiculously expensive and overall stupid and supposedly-humanitarian ideas and plans that don't make any kind of sense-- not financially, mentally, or emotionally for anyone involved. But, you know, they may turn out to look like heroes and saviors and angels and martyrs, and that's what's important.

This (and perhaps a victimhood complex or two) will all be very interesting to watch unfold. Get your popcorn ready, folks, and sit back and enjoy the show! Someone's about to get a taste of their own medicine. It comes in the form of "fuck no, you're on your own, honeybunch" and it won't taste very good.

I'd suggest watching a romantic comedy or cartoon or something, doing something that makes you feel pretty and reasonably pampered. You don't need a lot of money for self-pampering. Take a salt or bubble bath, light some candles, eat a piece of good quality chocolate (not ass chocolate) slowly, have a glass of red wine, massage some lotion or oils into any bothersome joints or tense areas of the body.

Do whatever it takes to lighten the mood in as healthful a manner as possible (that means not downing an entire bottle of wine in about fifteen minutes) because it could be quite heavy. Not to mention that some of us aren't going to be feeling particularly attractive or sexy.

Others who are used to getting what they want whenever they want are going to realize that their ridiculous plans will be a no-go and that no one is going to be willing to treat them like royalty.

Or, gasp, some will have to start really really (perhaps excruciatingly) small at something this weekend, because they are simply nowhere near a blooming phase. Sorry.

I'd be cautious around temperamental, needy, pushy, overly-ambitious, and insecure individuals. Don't engage any one of these types in any way. Just suggestions.

Some of us may be caring for a female who is exhausted and/or ill.

This card can be about difficulties in conceiving, a challenging delivery or miscarriage. It can also mean the decision to refrain from having (anymore) children.

Be aware of one more thing: these cards indicate that either some "queen" is about to become dethroned, or that someone is aiming to dethrone a perceived queen (that is, an empowered, accomplished, responsible type, or a wife, a matriarch, a boss, etc). How will such an event occur (if it does)?

Well, if said queen or "queen" is caught cheating, lying, stealing, etc, then that person leaves their reputation (and the reputation of others) open to destruction.

That said beware 'loose women' and certain acquaintances who want to get closer. They're a dime a dozen. In addition, there's more to life than cheap, easy thrills, tits, ass, and a sexually transmitted disease.

HOWEVER, (and this is what some really need to watch out for) there is the possibility of just plain nasty women with too much time on their hands attacking the perfectly good reputations of upstanding, honest women, and not in an obvious manner. It will all be skeevy and subtle and syrupy-sweet at first.

Later (or soon), not so much.

The idea is that some idiots want to create a huge cloud of doubt around good, productive people (good women especially) who mind their own business and tend to their work and lives.

This is a tricky energy to deal with. What will seem like innocent, fresh and friendly dialogue could actually turn out to be someone's way of prying into our business and stirring up some kind of trouble. So it's up to us to really wake up, put our intuition to good use, and feel free to be suspicious. Not accusatory-- suspicious. Spidey senses should be up for some. Good. This will set us up on a covering-bases kinda mission.

Couple of more suggestions:

Develop or protect your sense of dignity and self-respect.

Be humble. The more you think you're better than everyone else, the more you'll learn the opposite is true. Don't humiliate yourselves.

Dress modestly, or watch what you are "selling". People only buy what you sell. Don't blame them.

Take and treat your craft, skills, or talent(s) seriously. They are your babies.

Don't be TOO kind and welcoming and accommodating and friendly. Please. Right now I'm hearing about folks who are mistaking a simple arrangement to return something borrowed for the love affair of the century. (I shit you not.) Seriously, those of you who are too kind and helpful and willing to fix the fucked, please start channeling your inner-bitch stat.

There is a lot on some plates these days. And some of us just don't have time for, or the luxury of, any high school horseshit. So try as you may to screw someone over, you could find yourself digging your own graves.

Have a great weekend.

Tarot Goodness for the Week of February 6th-12th: The Children (Six of Cups)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-02-06T05:40:44Z

"Everybody needs his memories. They keep the wolf of insignificance from the door."- Saul Bellow

So this week will be about cooperation, slow productivity, careful supervision, childhood, children, playtime/work that is fun and feels like play, nostalgia, what we could/would/should have said or done, what that person over there could have been to us (because some like to imagine they have control over how others feel), where and who we could/would/should have been, the simple things that bring us joy, and, of course, taking time to smell the roses. This can be a pretty enriching time for some.

I'd suggest we don't allow too many hands to take on one simple project or assignment that can be completed by one person or a small group. Shit can get messy fast.

If you're usually the life of the party, you may decide to sit one out this time around. If you're always a wallflower, you may dive into the fun.

Some may feel enchanted, inspired, reenergized by the presence and/or creativity of someone younger or youthful. (And don't be quick to get pervy thoughts here, folks-- this is not the site for you if that's your bag.)

Others will become motivated or cheered up by memories of their youth. Some may even pick up a box of an old favorite box of cereal at the store for the pure joy of it. Nothing wrong with that!

Reminders of our past come in this week, whether through subtle signs, items, occurrences, and visits or run-ins with people we haven't seen in quite some time.

This is a good card for individuals who work well with children. Same goes for those who wish to work with children, perhaps providing a creative/learning/stable environment, counseling, training, and so forth. Offers and gigs come in, and go out, regarding work with children.

Like it or not, some are gonna be called to spend more time with their own children, and to be more responsible with and around them. I hope some of you don't owe any back child support payments, stuff like that. Be prepared to pull up your pants and start doing what's best for them-- not you.

Keep in mind that there's nothing wrong with taking a trip down Memory lane... unless you decide to live on Memory lane and refuse to confront and take responsibility for real and current circumstances. So if you want to use memories of your past to put a novel together, great. That's just super.

What I wouldn't do is drunk-dial an ex. It's kind of a shameful act especially if said ex has moved on. Same goes for pushing it with someone who is simply not interested in you romantically.

C'mon, folks. No pride left? Slim pickins? What's the deal?

I also wouldn't count on what we had together ten years ago to help make any important decisions this week. The year 2002 is long gone and it ain't about to make a come back.

Take people as you know they are, not who they were, and not who they say they are now. Don't be quick to forgive and hope all will be well this week. You may wind up sorely disappointed.

And some things cannot be undone. Or avoided, like a walk of shame.

That is all.

Enjoy your week!

Weekend Tarot Goodness: The Rider (Strength)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-31T22:58:27Z

"I'm the king of the world!!"- Jack Dawson, Titanic

Others will be feeling competitive, free, fit, fierce, and fabulous. Or maybe just fierce and fabulous but the point is that this is how patience, preparation and accomplishment all lead us to feel. Isn't it lovely? Whee.

In addition, we become resilient, more resistant to crap, and we mature swiftly and precisely in necessary areas. Or else. Perhaps some will even begin to lead by example, miracle of miracles!

By the way, if pondering a leadership position the Rider is the card you want behind ya. We're talking dynamic, charismatic, mesmerizing, dignified, commanding, powerful, willful energy through this card here. We're talking people suddenly believing in themselves, and the presence of true and divine power. Some, although they require a certain amount of training still, as they become more disciplined, will feel like they can take on the world.

And I hope they do already because I'm a little tired of hearing and reading about people taking on the world one day... and then whining about all the work and persistence involved the next.

The potentially unfortunate side of this card involves resignation, crossing a serious boundary due to arrogance or anger gone awry, and avoidance of/escaping responsibility and honesty. I mean the Rider is clearly either jumping over a hurdle or a boundary. And we don't really know if he makes it over either one (there is your mystery but forewarned is forearmed).

Being a liar is an entirely different story though. And the worst part is, a good deal of us will be on to who's full of it.

If you like your freedom, I suggest some of you behave.

Folks who are ready to confront a fear, come clean, showcase skills/training or talents, or forge ahead with precision and the right attitude and good pacing, then, will benefit. So will some athletes, masters, managers, leaders, entrepreneurs, and trainers, especially as they help others feel more brave and in-control of themselves, soothing others' inner rage and putting it to good use. Example of good use: turning someone's anger into a muscle-building regimen or self-defense program.

Give direction, obey-- whatever works.

Just keep in mind this isn't overly-aggressive, show-offy, and untamed, all-over-the-place energies we should be working with since they lead to major stupidity, accidents, or stupid and entirely preventable accidents.

So, as funny as someone punching him/herself in the face by accident sounds, try to remain focused/grounded, firm, and assertive, ideally in an environment suitable to growth and discipline.

Let weirdo, asshole, or reckless drivers go ahead of you.

If you want to be proud of your efforts and projects and performance, earning respect, then being in charge of some circus performance ain't gonna cut it. Entertainment, lessons, and creativity really shouldn't come in tacky and/or lazy forms at this point. They need to be rich and satisfying, and carried out in a responsible fashion.

Some need structure, a hobby, an activity, a life, or to be placed in one of those awesome prison-like schools that are prison-like only because they don't allow cellphones and handheld game devices in classrooms. (Wah.)

Others will start to plan for a retreat.

And, just so you know, I'm in no way anti-anger.

I am, however, anti-anger-gone-dumbass. So while there may be opportunity in challenges, I'd suggest not forcing yourselves, your plans, your ideals, your vision, and so forth onto anyone, or attacking innocent folks. People are territorial.

Random irrational and/or violent outbursts may become 'tranqulized'.

Those of us ready to resign from a certain position can use this time to plan for that without a mountain's worth of guilt or fear upon our shoulders. This card means "I'm ready" but, again, pacing and timing matters.

If you're being held back or feel consumed or overwhelmed by anger, resentment, or frustration, and think you might chop the heads off your colleagues (maybe even your own head), now would be a good time to aim to leave an unhealthy situation as soon (and as amicably) as possible.

On the other hand, those of us unwilling to behave or take on a challenge like we know we're supposed to, and for as long as we're supposed to... Well, this weekend might suck royal balls.

The Rider represents big-time can-do energy/spirit that needs to be released and emotions that need relief. That said you probably don't want to be known as a 'deadbeat' or douchebag. (Or maybe you do but this card kinda favors the opposite of all that.)

Do what's correct. If you can't lead and guide here, let someone else do the leading and guiding. Don't lead for the sake of leading or satisfying your ego because a whole bunch of people will result kinda, or ridiculously, fucked up, dissatisified, and/or miserable. Understand that a certain position or place may not be what is meant for you.

Deeply consider life with a "wild animal" (or an emotionally and/or mentally draining or dangerous barbarian).

Keep your own inner wild-child in check.

Or, if you must, summon your inner-tiger because you might need it badly in order to better deal with shit or function in general over the weekend.

You don't need a heavy hand, a weapon, or an intimidating voice and presence to teach/train. Unless, of course, you're teaching/training others how to use weapons, ideally in self-defense.

Those of you watching deadbeats, corrupt douchebags, self-proclaimed leaders/superiors, even lazy partners ride off into the sunset: congratulations.

Many are off to a good start somewhere. Keep it up. Keep up the self-belief, sense of humor, and (healthy dosage of) confidence, too. It's all kinda necessary right now.

Enjoy your weekend!

Tarot Goodness for the Week of January 30th-February 6th: The Anchor

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-28T05:03:09Z

This sense of order is quite a stabilizing force. Well, the Anchor is a stabilizing force especially in our professional and educational pursuits. Of course, our relationships and connections benefit from this energy as well. The more organized, prompt, committed, productive, and efficient we are this week, the more we will gain out of everything we do. And we won't need to venture out too far either (not sure why many of us believe our happiness and success is always somewhere else).

Some of us may need to be a rock right now. Or we may have ourselves a rock to lean on.

Or we may learn real damn quick that in order to feel stable and be successful, and to be a part of something stable and successful, we need to work at it. Blood, sweat, and tears, my friends. This card is not about laziness, entitlement, or half-assery. It is about effort and time and discipline.

I think some really wonderful relationships could bud or begin to develop this week, though. Particularly if they involve folks who have known each other for some time because trust (perhaps interest) and familiarity is present and apparent. Foundations will be strong, for the long haul. Not to mention that some are 'getting there'. That is, where they'd like to be or where they know, and feel, they need to be. This is good because starting anything off on the wrong foot, or before we're ready, or before we're able to devote ourselves to something or someone, this week will turn out to be an all-around awful idea.

Take things slow.

With the Anchor popping up, I wouldn't take chances on new responsibilities, endeavors, or on testing any waters. Just do what you know you're supposed to do, or what is expected of you, or what you're told to do.

Work on establishing or strengthening yourselves in some way. Endurance will be key.

Climb or hike if you can.

Adding on any more tasks to our current lists, or not asking for help or guidance when we need it, will create a burden. And it'll be all our fault because no one will be taking advantage of us. We might feel overwhelmed and exhausted if we don't say "no" to certain offers or requests. Don't be afraid to say "no", ask for help, and/or admit that you have enough or too much on your plate.

And let's take a step at a time and be cautious (especially if traveling by sea, swimming, doing anything by, on, or in water). Some of us do not have the luxury of throwing caution to the wind this week. This is not a time to be impulsive, irresponsible, a partyer, or to allow frustrations to get out of hand.

Safety, vigilance, and self-control should all be a priorities.

Steps should be sturdy.

Time should be managed well.

Rewards include fulfillment, accomplishment, growing-up, even financial boosts for reliability and consistency.

Keep in mind what the purpose of a current mission is. It is likely we are to learn something valuable but we are certainly on a mission. It would be stupid to miss the point, the fun, and the opportunities to earn respect (or establish self-respect), climb new and better heights, and see the world (or at least what's right in front of us) with fresh eyes.

Settle in, settle down, get comfy and used to things, cause we're gonna be here a while, folks...

Have a great week. Rock on.

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Weekend Tarot Quickie: The Flowers (4 of Wands)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-28T03:15:51Z

If anyone is a little pissy this weekend, it's likely due to envy, embarrassment, or a taste for vengeance (pick your poison), something you and you (and you!) will get over real soon.

Um, I hope. Boy, do I hope.

If what we'd like or appreciate is vindication, this is a possibility. If not over the weekend, then next week.

Most of all, this weekend provides us with the chance to showcase our gifts and talents. Our homes, our lives. Whatever we have/make the best out of. Whoever we are/make the best out of.

With each day that passes from now, there is something, some skill, some environment, we will enhance and improve. Perhaps we will enhance and improve ourselves.

And others will want a piece of it/us. So focus and work hard. Do not allow anyone's shit to stink up your goals. And do not allow anyone to take a dump on what you produce either.

It's one thing to ask for advice, ask for what you want, and receive it. But we're playing a whole different ballgame when someone forces advice, gifts, attention on us.

The Flowers represents a time to celebrate, or gather with loved ones. The card possesses (and radiates) welcoming, sharing, generous energies. It is about attention, affection, socializing, compliments, positive feedback, charm, politeness, appreciation, celebration, remembering, memorializing, and making things attractive and as pleasant and peaceful as possible. After all, we may have delicate and fragile and beautiful types and things to look out and care for.

Chances are, however, that what is super-attractive/pleasant on the outside is not actually super-attractive/pleasant on the inside. And yet, some of us will show-off what isn't real (which, c'mon, shouldn't come as a surprise at this point).

Commercialism might be a little annoying at this time.

Romantic relationships kicked-off now will fizzle out sooner than we think. If you're OK with that, super. If not, I recommend friendships first.

Simple changes and decorations will do. Little surprises and gestures go a long way.

Have a great weekend.

Tarot Goodness for the Week of January 23rd-29th: The Clouds (7 of Cups)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-23T07:14:13Z

"Toto, I've a feeling we're not in Kansas anymore."-

That's "WTF is he/she talking about?", "WTF is she/he thinking?", "WTF is he/she smoking?", "WTF is wrong with him/her/them?", and (the golden question) "just WTF is up everyone's behinds?"

Behold a quiet sort of war taking place in people's thoughts, hearts, and spirits. I like to think of it as art but you can call it a WTF fest.

This is a stormy week, folks, in more ways than one. Yes, some parts may experience stormy weather. At worst, tornadoes. And, overall, the landscape might be gloomy.

But you'll have storms going on in people's heads as well. In conversations. This is kind of a moody atmosphere many will be contending with, not that this will be surprising. I mean, some of us need to take a good look at who and what we are dealing with here.

My suggestion would be to bring your brightest and funkiest umbrella to work, and lay low this week.  Try not to get sucked into pointless conversations disguised as intellectually stimulating discussions, learning discoveries, and opportunities to evolve (my ass).

Mind your own business, keep your nose to the grindstone, even if others' behavior and activities make you grit your teeth.  That feeling will be over soon enough. It has to be. That's what the Clouds is about so rest assured that all the confusion, the nonsense, the hype, the nauseating overrated stuff-- all of it will disappear, all of it will go away.

Some are desperately seeking attention at this time. Others have no idea what they're doing or saying, or what kind of example they're setting here. Pay no mind to it.  Avoid the drama and "the excitement" if you can. Allow no one to rile you up (and there won't be a shortage of folks trying to do exactly that).

Change up your schedule a little.  Some of you will have no choice but to do it, anyhow, as you adjust to tasks. Keep busy. And feel free to tell some others that you're busy.

Don't expect a decent answer, response, or explanation.

Don't offer your opinion (unless asked for it, and maybe even then).

Don't make or believe in any (new) promises.

Do tell or show someone that you're thinking of them. This isn't mandatory. I think some of us know that we're connected upstairs and in spirit. And, yeah, we enjoy it.

Dream a little, manifest a little. Meditate and/or indulge in the kind of dreaming that turns into what you consider a work of art. Mull over the options before you real good. This is the kind of week for that.

Pace yourselves well. One thing at a time.

Enjoy the calm before, and after, the storm... as well as that natural high (hee). Amuse yourselves and try to have an awesome week.

Deb's Over-Twelve-Days of 2012 Tarot Forecasts: Pisces and the Lightning

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-23T06:16:27Z

What a dynamic, charged, adventurous, fun year ahead for you. Well, most of you but we'll get to that later.

So you've got the Lightning this year, Pisces. Life's hitting you with the unexpected, the all-new, the life-alterning, the curveballs. Blasts from the past are likely, but so is speeding into the future. And ordinarily you might be cool with some of this, but the truth is that you're gonna be feeling a little out of character this year.

At worst you'll feel like you've been ripped a whole new asshole. That's what happens when you touch or interfere with something you're simply not supposed to, or when you tinker with things or situations you know nothing about. So if something electrical starts malfunctioning, I'd advise you to leave it be. Don't start attacking and taking apart the components of your microwave unless you're an expert and know exactly what you are doing... or else zappo.

Safety first. Safety plus common sense.

But at best you'll feel like a million bucks. You know those things you've only fantasized about doing? Let's just say you'll be more impulsive than dreamy this year, and you'll actually make choices, do and say things you probably wouldn't make, do or say in a million years. This attitude will serve you well. You need to just be. Think fun. Act. Be adventurous. Because the truth is that you need a refreshing change to get those gears moving, and for you to feel motivated and energized.

You won't be short of adrenaline this year. That's a guarantee. Sleep and rest maybe, but not adrenaline. And in case you were getting too much sleep, or feeling lazy or lethargic or bored, you'll be awakened and made alert, my friend. We're talking a different environment, a different lifestyle you're gonna have to start getting used to (but you probably won't mind at all).

The Lightning is the "kicked outta bed" card. You need that kick. No more procrastinating and overthinking options. This card is a jolt. It is penetrating. Foundations shake when this card comes along, pushing you towards a new one, like it or not (though you may like this new episode of Life a whole lot. Wink.)

The old stuff (including fantasies/illusions) isn't working anymore. Why force it to work for you? And why force anyone else to fit into an ideal? Not going to happen.

Make good use of insight, and brilliance you have within. You know you have it. Some of you are geniuses.

Don't use what power you have to destroy others, because that'll surely destroy you. There may be a tendency to be reckless and a little too impulsive. Gotta curb that a little bit. Or, as I said, zappo.

If you've been way too impulsive and reckless, this is the awakening you'll need to cut the shit. The Lightning is absolutely 100% serious business when it comes to straightening up one's act. It really is no joke. We're talking flashes, crashes, aftershocks, damage, followed by a tremendous clean-up effort (interpret all this as you wish-- emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, etc).

Remember that lightning, while incredibly beautiful, is still one of nature's most destructive forces. Destruction can be very costly. Misused power can be very costly. Self-destruction is entirely possible this year.

A lot of what you know, Pisces, is subject to change this year. That means that not everything the manuals, texts, books, instructions tell you will be helpful. You may not even have time to review these items. The kind of thinking and acting you'll be doing will need to be quick. You'll need to be efficient.

The pace picks up dramatically. Forces beyond your control will be at work. Karma is coming for sure. But this is not necessarily scary. For some, maybe.

For others, this year will prove to be risky, exciting, upbeat and... different. Very different and interesting and unplanned for-- this is good! Over and over again, many of you will surprise yourselves through the decisions you make, the way you stand up for yourselves (even others), and the way nature will work hand-in-hand with your desires (provided you aren't harming anyone, including yourself).

Best of all, I think that a number of you will be quite proud of yourselves and what you create or make out of this intense year. What a rush, indeed! What a fine thing a purpose is, too.

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Deb's Over-Twelve-Days of 2012 Tarot Forecasts: Aquarius and the Scythe

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-23T02:57:45Z

Kinda hard to do when you've got a lot to think about, say, and sort both internally and externally, innit?

Here's the thing: you've got a whole year to do some serious weeding. Personally, I'd get this shit done soon. That's soon or as soon as possible, not later in the year when you'll decide you don't feel like it, when you won't feel "motivated", because I don't want you to find yourself in a position in which you are forced to make a certain cut. I also wouldn't want for you to be cut out of a certain equation.

Not to mention, somehow I don't think that intense pressure brings out the best in you. The bitchy side of you perhaps, but most certainly not the best side of you.

The Scythe is about weeding all the unnecessary stuff, people, situations, and so forth who/that no longer suit you, your work, or how you relate to others. The first half of the year will be about preparing your "soil" adequately, de-weeding it, then nurturing and maintaining your garden.

The second half, or from autumn onward, it's all about the harvest. All about reaping what you sow.

You've got some powerful tools to work with, Aquarius, as evidenced by the Scythe. Such sharp tools can slice, dice, attack, defend, perform surgery. But they can be deadly as well. Do not use them, or your leadership, to wound, judge, harm, etc, just because you can.

And don't think for a second that you're too smart, too ethical, too honest to hurt people you shouldn't be hurting or amputating from your life. Because this year will test your sense of ethics and, at times, it will be difficult for you to rationalize people and situations. When this happens, I suggest you take a personal day to retreat and think very long and hard (I know-- that's what she said!) about your next move or response. Make a list of pros and cons and work from there.

The Scythe warns against amputating perfectly good people and opportunities for those who/which may bestow you with a sense of importance.

On the other hand, it warns as well against letting yourself (your health, your responsibilities) go. That's the thing about weeds or "weeds"-- they can infest and kill whatever good stuff you have going in your garden. Catch them early and get rid of them before they overwhelm and darken your space and leave you feeling defeated. Nurture whatever it is you want to grow.

Weed useless information from practical, necessary stuff.

Although you may be willing to consider all opinions, perspectives, comments, your challenge will come in when you'll need to decide upon what's actually fair and correct, and this may not leave you the most popular person. So then, you'll have to figure out what's more important to you: popularity/acceptance or ethics/morality.

It's said that Aquarius is an individual, a rebel, noticeable. But the reality is that, in the process, Aquarian energy wants to unite, and it wants to be a part of something bigger than itself.

I guess what's going to matter to Aquarius is whether he/she is growing and headed somewhere. But that will depend on how well Aquarius is handling experiences and knowledge, and whether he/she is grooming, trimming, and cutting whatever needs to be groomed, trimmed, and cut... one step at a time. No need to overdo it.

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Deb's Over-Twelve-Days of 2012 Tarot Forecasts: Capricorn and the Heart

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-19T21:32:26Z

Love is of all passions the strongest, for it attacks simultaneously
the head, the heart, and the senses. - Lau Tzu

... and vulnerable. For so many reasons including love (the real kind which can be overwhelming at times), grief, hormones, etc. Perhaps this year calls for you to be a little less serious and controlling/dominating as well, and a little more "flowy", going for what you really feel is right for you and isolating yourself for the sake of good cry whenever needed...

If anything became kinda stale for you last year, that's about to change and change dramatically.

This is not going to be an easy year by any stretch of the imagination. Not for someone as professional and well-put-together (in a variety of ways, mind you-- not just in terms of what you might wear to work but through what you express and how you express it)... and anal as you. No way, no how.

However, it also doesn't have to be super hard. And, unfortunately, if it is super hard for you to go through 2012, it's due to your handle on it. It is because you allow things like a sense of obligation, a superior sense of logic, even money to influence and dictate your decisions. And the problems will come in when you take a failure or rocky situation out on someone else.

Your heart will be touched, tugged, broken, mended, taken in, chewed up, spit out, and set free to soar, Capricorn. Like it or not, for others' burdens are not your own. And your priorities will experience a makeover.

As emotional as you might be this year, it is important to disengage/detach yourself from the affairs of others. Disengage/detach yourself from whatever is bringing your heart down as well. Easier said than done. A lot easier said than done. But others' problems are not your own, and you cannot fix them. And it is not fair to allow them to weigh you down and keep you from your own true goals.

O-v-e-r is whatever your heart isn't into. Whatever you're not 'feeling'. Don't feel weird about asking yourself, on a daily basis, if you're 'feeling this'. The answer is yes or no-- not "no but" or "yes but". Trust yourself.

More importantly, you've some work to do on you. You have your own heart to tend to, for it's likely been neglected, and this is the time to do it considering it's right in there, raw and ready for you. It's not going anywhere unless you're having some creepy ancient ritual performed in which case... godspeed.

The good news, though, is that this year should be quite rewarding for you, provided you really toughen up because that rough exterior is not enough. (Sorrray!) Rewarding in that you could wind up doing something you really love, being in a place you really love, and being around people whom you really love and who support you in spite of any sacrifices you'll need to make.

I guess you'll have to decide on what's more important to you, then: peace or privilege.

Finally, as emotional as you might be, don't wear your heart on your sleeve. What you are, or will be, experiencing is nothing new. But do make the effort to connect with those who have gone, or are going through, similar experiences. And do feel free to channel any frustrations into creative work.

Laugh a good laugh. Cry a good cry (helps us sleep).

Home is where the heart is, Capricorn.

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Deb's Approximately-12-Days of 2012 Tarot Forecasts: Sagittarius and the Letter

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-18T20:09:21Z

Say whaaaaaat?

... although that's likely because not much surprises you anymore. I mean, sure, some or few things, people, behaviors, places, activities, and situations grab your attention here and there, occasionally impressing you. (I fully understand that.) But let's just say that this year, 2012, has more than the usual amount of surprises, among them really stupid and wasteful ones, and you'll learn about it all.

I'm sorry. I realize that a lot of this information coming in will be a soft large poop on your time and energy-- that's how downright disrespectful it all might feel at times.  However, you can totally count on yourself to throw whatever doesn't suit you, whatever doesn't serve you, in the trash can.

You're just not in the mood for the horseshit, Sagittarius, and who can blame you? But some will still want to be up your hiney. Thus, hang onto any tickets, receipts, a call to jury duty, statements, letters (especially if they involve any level of harassment), bills-- anything you deem important or potentially important.  I say that because you could miss something, some detail, that will announce itself later in the form of something like a "late notice" or added fee/charge.

The problem is... you're gonna be on the receiving (perhaps giving) end of information, whether it comes from a nonsensical source or basis in reality, so you're gonna be expected to reply. Alternatively, you could throw something important away like a prize-winning ticket/notification, or a brilliant opportunity, and that would really really suck.

Or, worse, you're gonna expect a response. I'd not get bent out of shape about not hearing from some folks. They're as distracted and busy as you tend to become most times. But do feel free to become assertive, firm, and persistent around those you need answers from, like doctors, lawyers-- anyone who might have you by the balls.

Of course, you may need a little bit of legal or official assistance when it comes to reaching out to others, especially about damages, threats, attacks, or other less-dramatic stuff like protection/rights.

Depending on the answers you're looking for, you may not like at all what you hear. Or you may love it so much, becoming so absorbed by it, that you drop information about the source. I wouldn't do the latter, and I'd get over the former as fast as possible.

Know where your information is coming from, Sagittarius. Ask for second opinions if necessary, or until you feel satisfied. Don't be quick to make tremendous changes and sacrifices, or sign on the dotted line, before knowing all of your rights and options. Don't assume that giving anyone money away like an optimistic jackass guarantees you anything you want, especially if you work hard for it.

On the other hand, you may need to make changes in order to mend things or improve a certain part of your lifestyle.

Regardless, keep a cool head about matters. The less you say and worry, the more things should work out in your favor (provided you are the honest one here, naturally). There is no reason to offend, or to allow yourself to become offended by criticism or whatever anyone else says or writes about you.

Actually, if you become too offended or worried by others' perspectives and opinions and feedback, what you learn, then, could be true about you. In which case, you can go ahead and make things better.

Or you could develop a thicker skin. After all, you probably dealt with ~~idiotic folks~~ critics just like these in elementary school.   Please carefully look over, observe, research your "sources" then. And I mean get a good fucking look and whiff, because chances are you're dealing with folks who are simply-- mentally, physically, emotionally, socially-- "all dressed up with nowhere to go". That's nowhere, ever.

Ignore all that and use the first quarter to half of 2012 to read, reread, absorb, edit, perfect, and send/distribute your message. The point is getting it out there if it is true and needs to be out there. Go with the flow. Go with it, because you don't need the best plan in the world as much as you think you might.

And, by the way, if writing/publishing is your thing, I'd say you grab the attention of someone who matters this year. That's awesome-sauce in the making...

Deb's Approximately-12-Days of 2012 Tarot Forecasts: Scorpio and the Clover

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-15T20:55:31Z

But it all depends on whether you see the jackpot before you. Because the little changes that occur this year will only take you somewhere if you appreciate them instead of, you know, bitching and moaning about them not being enough.

The thing to remember about luck, which is what the Clover represents, is that it's not always something major that falls into your lap without your trying and effort. It doesn't always come in the form of a $10M grand prize or something free of charge.

Luck comes in 2012, but it comes in ways that change your life for the better. It comes in ways to make adjusting and living a little bit easier. Not super-easy and effortless, but easier. Not in a way that'll make you the richest person in the world either. After all, what good are riches handled by an individual who is, say, unwise with money?

Luck highly depends on your perspective, and whether you're willing to put in your part to create it. For example, if you have supportive people in your life, even if they're few, you're lucky.

If you get to take up an opportunity others won't have a chance to breathe in, you're lucky.

If you wind up in a safe environment suitable to your needs and some of your wants, boy, are you lucky.

Thing is, with the Clover, luck is fleeting. It doesn't stick around long enough for you to grow-up and appreciate and make the best of it.

Luck also doesn't allow for you to choose how it will hit your life, right down to the last detail. So you might land that condo you've coveted for a while, but it's not going to be exactly the way you want it. It could require handiwork. Or it may not be in your most-desired location. Big deal! What matters is what you do with it, whether you make the best of it or throw the opportunity away and wait for another to come alog.

However, I can tell you right now with certainty, Scorpio, that whatever you don't learn to appreciate this year will become someone else's golden opportunity. If this has happened to you in the past, you're not gonna be a happy camper when you see someone else taking what could have been yours and turning it into awesomeness.

Now, I'm not suggesting that you take up every single opportunity that comes up. I'm just hoping that you don't behave like a spoiled brat or a whiny toddler, letting a good thing, a thing with potential, slip away.

Be a little more decisive this year, a little more responsible, and a little more... quiet but still present. Put yourself out there, be more brave with your presence. But don't expect the entire world to bow down to your desires and will. And don't even think about interfering with others' fate.

Doesn't matter how good-looking, educated, or whatever you are, it is your experience, ethic, and willingness to work that will push doors open and bring you luck this year. Even if you are distressed, no one will do all the work for you-- others will help you if you're willing to help yourself. (Your luck, then, comes in the form of others will to help you, see?)

Luck comes from unexpected places and sources, perhaps in subtle ways. It could come from small people and opportunities. It could involve a series of steps for you as well, since you don't get the luxury of skipping any. For some, luck could mean a little freedom from stress, pressure, and worry. For others, luck could mean a little extra money in their pockets, or money in their pockets in general.

The point is, luck is ultimately what you make of it.

Good luck!

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Deb's Approximately-12-Days of 2012 Tarot Forecasts: Libra and the Clouds

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-15T20:01:33Z

If it doesn't make sense, it's usually not true.- Judy Sheindlin

It's clear that this isn't the year for making major life decisions. I'd wait until the second-half of 2012 at least, but maybe that's just me. Even if you have the funds at the ready, and it seems the world is your oyster this year (and it very well can be due to the options and opportunities at your disposal), I'd wait a little longer on taking something big on because it could very well turn out that we miss some very important details like, say, promotions.   OK, fine, you've saved up for this awesome car, house, program, lavish vacation, grand wedding, or whatever else. While it seems like a super-duper idea to dive into this new thing and such on paper, you could miss out on getting that thing you really want, what you really dream of having, the place you dream of living in, etc, at a cheaper or more affordable price next year. You could also miss out on getting something you need.

I'm not suggesting that you hold back on providing or attaining necessities. Just hold your horses, Libra, at least until the later part of 2012 on decisions with archangels singing and playing harps in the background. The world's not ending just yet. You have time.

What you don't have time for are any regrets. So this warning, then, goes out to you as well if an individual or opportunity offers you the sun, moon, and stars. It is highly likely that said individual or opportunity is completely full of shit. As such, get your promises in writing. Insurance, maybe? A savings account? Whatever qualifies as an "umbrella" in your life.  Whatever ensures you protection or shelter from a storm.

See, once the dark clouds come rolling in, you're not allowed to see everything you need to see for a while. And this isn't the safest, surest environment or time, then, to take big chances or invest in certain dreams and goals. Sorry, but that's life. For now.

Also, ease up on the alcohol, drugs, smoking, medications, illusions, judgment-calls, jumping to conclusions, drama and tantrums from others, whatever inhibits your focus and drive and performance. Whatever attacks your mind, lungs or respiratory system as well. This is a year of many many distractions, much activity, and noise or "noise".  Stay focused by omitting all the crap and tuning out from all the folks who don't deserve your attention. Ensure that you are numero uno this year, despite how much everyone else might need you. And keep away from "stinky" situations as you'll be more sensitive than usual this year to smells and, thus, potentially barfy.

You'll also be super sensitive to others' moods.

Deep-breathing/meditation might be very good for you. So is sufficient sleep and rest.

The good news: You get a visit from the much-coveted genie dude in a lamp. I'm not one for making wishes, myself, unless it means helping others in some way. Wish wisely. Set and put your intentions out there wisely. A dream or two will come true this year.

What you want to make sure of is that your dream-come-true doesn't steal from someone else, or is unethical in any way.

I think your income or lifestyle will change so that it enables you to daydream a little and plan for the near future. Don't feel bad about that as you've worked towards certain privileges. Don't get all obnoxious about it either though.

More good news: you have foresight going for you that a lot of others don't have. Probably because some don't want the gift, or don't care, or they're too caught up in pretty things and illusions and empty hopes/dreams/desires/promises they don't want to let go of.

The latter is not your problem, Libra.

What is your problem, or responsibility, is using your power, your magic, your gifts, for good and not ill. In truth.

The Clouds card indicates that storms will be rolling in for sure. Rain storms, wind storms, snow storms-- symbolic (such as those found in communication or relationships) or real ones. Their ferocity levels vary, and they could present themselves within you or through stormy others.

How you handle, survive, and move on from them depends on how well you prepare, whether your plate is full of the real deal or the ideal. Keep in mind: you've enough, or more than enough on your plate as it is.

Some of you will see those storms rolling in, and you'll be just fine this year. They'll pass.

You should have the time, resources, communication skills, and level of understanding and patience to prepare well by now... for the good and the bad. You can make it.

You should also be grown-up enough to balance your-- life, work, social, relationship-- needs by now. If not, this year will show you how it's done. Becoming a ______aholic, addict, or control-freak is not a good idea. Same goes for giving into certain temptations.

Negotiate.

Skies are clear. Clouds roll in. Storms hit. Skies clear again. This should serve as proof that cycles exist and operate, with or without your permission or approval. What matters is how you live through them, what you learn, and how well you protect and arm yourself.

Using your imagination and mental powers? That's a great idea. Keeping from getting lazy or feeling entitled? Working hard for what you want, staying a good course, choosing the tougher road over the easier one, telling/writing stories? Having guts? Getting 'it' all in writing? Keeping others' (particularly scalding or horrid) affairs at a distance? More great ideas.

Patience is quite the virtue, Libra. Take your time. Plan accordingly. Ask questions. Feel free to say maybe, I'll think about it, I don't think so, and no, thanks. The world is vast, the universe is a mystery, and people can be fucking bizarre.

Wait until the fog lifts before making important decisions.

Deb's Approximately-12-Days of 2012 Tarot Forecasts: Virgo and the Reversed Empress

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-14T22:18:49Z

Virgo, if you've been waiting for that year in which you harden up like you need to, this is it.

This is that year.

When the Queen of Hearts is upright, she is the person anyone and everyone can come to, unloading their emotional baggage. She is there to understand, to care. She is there to "save" on occasion, but generally she makes things better. After all, she is in the position to do so, and she has her heart, mind, and soul in the right place, and her intentions are as pure as is reasonably possible.

The Queen of Hearts is reversed, however, and this indicates that she has been dethroned. What does this mean for you, Virgo?

One, or lots of things. For starters, it can mean that your heart is probably bleeding at this point due to some amount of abuse by others of your kindness, loyalty, expertise, money, and patience. Abusers are more than likely (masculine) aggressive, argumentative, chemically-imbalanced and/or delusional women, or effeminate types.

It's crucial for you to establish boundaries, and to be firm, well before someone begins to show signs of overstepping bounds or aggression or abuse. Be wise. Once those behaviors settle into your life, they'll be hard, even impossible, to stave off, and people can and will become attack-y in a number of ways. Don't be too welcoming.

Be tough. This card is about tough love.

As an alternative, you may be experiencing a "yin deficiency". I'd take care of this, as you might find yourself becoming more drained and achy as the year goes on.

This card represents difficulties in creating. Don't worry about inventing something all-new and exciting here, or about a lack of ideas. People appreciate you as you are, you are useful, and you are still a fountain of knowledge and wisdom, as well as a source of strength, for others. Believe it. You will survive.

Conceiving and reproducing is part of the creation deal. This card could indicate troubles in trying to have a baby. It could mean waiting a while before having children due to some setbacks. Or it could mean that you've decided not to start a family altogether. Your decision is your business, and everyone else should stay out of it and mind their own.

Alternatively, this card could represent a motherly figure who might experience health problems and so forth this year. Stay in touch and see if there is anything you can do to help out. If the mother figure is, say, your wife or partner or sibling (or simply a female close to you), she needs help with the kid(s) as well as with an emotional outlet.

Overall, this year doesn't have to be so bad. It's all a matter of not pushing it, and not allowing others to push you either, Virgo. I'd advise that you listen as well... to yourself, so that you figure out what it is you're actually capable of doing and what your limits are (these change). Don't be manipulative or allow others to manipulate you. Try not to break any hearts, at least not deliberately. Tone down any overbearing, jealous, possessive, demanding, or hypercritical tendencies, particularly around those who love you. Too much neglect can prove detrimental. And, finally, keep from focusing on what's "missing" and fully appreciate what's there.

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Deb's Approximately 12 Days of 2012 Tarot Forecasts: Leo and the Cupid

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-14T21:22:07Z

Operation: Get Over Thyself

Leo, you're gonna be surrounded by imperfections in both yourself and others, in fact, all year long. Hopefully we're just talking basics like bumps in noses, large ears, underbites, excessive body hair, and stubby toes, and perhaps an inability to perform a headstand or do the tree pose, because some personality-imperfections will not be easy for you to handle.

However, drama like disappointing or unreliable individuals such as friends and relatives can be avoided by not putting all your eggs-- all your hopes, dreams, wishes, desires-- in one basket. Don't expect what is clearly a a casual, fun, or superficial relationship to turn into some kinda deep, intoxicating, learning experience. And don't assume that creating a picture-perfect scenario will be, well, perfect... for you.

The Cupid is a card of theatrics, hosting, modeling, indulging, cosmetic changes, makeovers, reinventions when it comes to beauty. If you've got an asset going for you, flaunt it. You'll stand out. Enjoy it all, but be wise not to overdo these things, burning a hole in your budget and possibly in your heart when attempts at attracting/keeping another (or an opportunity) simply fail. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And there is no need to try too hard or overextend yourself.

Also, watch your weight, for it may take longer than you'll anticipate to shed pounds you gain this year. And I know you don't want to follow a super-strict eating routine. C'mon, who the fuck does?

Indulge on occasion. That way you'll have something to look forward to, and you'll appreciate and reminisce about it a great deal (prolonging the happiness/fuzzy stuff).

Besides, it costs money to shift into a different size wardrobe. This is not a year to spend much on trivial things. Trust that you'll feel amazing spending on what is truly worthy to you. Guilt, for one thing, is not a feeling you find worthy of experiencing... or fun.

The Cupid suggests revisiting people, activities, and places which/who brought you joy throughout childhood or younger years. It's OK to make your inner-child and heart happy. Who cares if others find what you do stupid or immature. You could look great, hot even, doing these things, and you could attract people who share in your interests and lifestyle (which may be crucial for you to do, actually).

This is a year in which you will learn to distinguish between temporary fixes (including fair-weather friends and partners) and long-term ones. I hope the road will not be too difficult. The things and people who/that have made you happy and comfortable up until now may not stick around until next year. This is because some, if not all, of these relationships began on brittle foundations, and some have been built on the notion of obligation. It's sort of like being in elementary school and hanging out with certain friends (who aren't really your friends, and who you don't share an intimate connection with) so that you don't feel left out. Like that. And it'll be OK, because the truth is that you haven't been feeling like the friend of some of these folks, either. How could an intimate connection have developed or existed, anyway, when you couldn't express your real self, your real thoughts, you real feelings?

Make room, Leo, for things and folks that/who matter. And folks and things that/who matter will make room for you.

Deb's Approximately-12-Days of 2012 Tarot Forecasts: Cancer and the Reversed Sword

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-08T21:39:09Z

Hi, Cancer.

The good news about 2012 is that whatever resistance you were meeting with last year is no more. I refer to resistance from friends, people thought to be friends, exes, foes, higher-ups, family, partners, colleagues, and, well, pretty much the entire universe. It's OK to put the sword down, for certain duels, or perhaps a major one in particular, is/are over.

I didn't say bury your sword forevermore so don't be quick to freak out here. My point is that there is no use fighting circumstances or others, being defiant or defensive, or holding a grudge, especially because your energy is simply not up to it this year. This is not to say that you won't engage in battles or conflicts, just choose them very wisely because, again, your energy is of the essence. Don't waste it. It is not meant to handle nonsense, injustices that aren't going to change anytime soon or ever. And it should not attempt to make sense out of folks who just... well, don't make any kind of sense out of choice.

I think that others will wisen up and refrain from battling with you, anyway. But in the event they don't, do not go out of your way to offer "fighting words" which, at times, come in the form of criticism. I say that because you just aren't in a position to argue, so best not to start arguments. That is, you're not gonna win or change others' minds or goals. You're not gonna be able to change how they feel, either.

This is kind of a "give up" card.

On the other hand, debating may be good for you. That's debating, not chewing someone's head off for not agreeing with you. You'll learn a great deal from those on the other side of the fence.

You can change your own goals and your own mind. A lot of us tend to believe that the opportunities we compete hard, sometimes ruthlessly, for make for the most worthy and valuable and rewarding experiences. Not true, and not true for you. In fact, I believe that your best opportunities this year will be those you don't try too hard to take up, or manifest for yourself. That's not to recommend that you sit on your ass and wait for a response through Craigslist. It's to suggest that you allow yourself to not be overcome by stupid obstacles for once.

If, say, a job or duty or project kinda falls in your lap, even if it's not paying an amazing salary in the beginning, take it. Remember that part of taking up an opportunity is establishing yourself, growth, and making new connections.

Same goes for relationships. Easing into a good one should not be cause for alarm. Often times, we *romantics* tend to idealize love as much as Disney himself, believing that love will not become our reward unless we overcome ridiculous obstacles and defeat an enemy.

But love is no one's reward. It just is. It is everywhere, and it is constant. What you make of it-- accepting or denying it-- is your choice alone. I'd suggest not fighting love, or doing away with a perfectly good thing going for you unless, of course, you feel it is not rooted in love.

So less obstacles for you this year, Cancer. Less bumps in the road. Less humps. Less drama, less stress. Legal battles may become mitigated, delayed, or done away with.

Whatever will you do with yourself now?

I dunno, but figuring out how to 'fight' without harming yourself or others would be a very good idea. Remain amicable. Walking away or talking it out would be great, too, as is taking real good care of your immune system.

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Deb's Twelve Days of 2012 Tarot Forecasts: Gemini and The Pig

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-07T20:39:21Z

A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step.– Lao Tzu

Yes, Gemini. Pig says you're all set to have a dynamic, perhaps even a too-fulfilling or overwhelming kinda year. A year of opportunity and options a lot of other people aren't gonna get, or don't have, or may never have, is in store for you so, if I were you, I'd take up some of them, preferably those you can afford, and gain some serious life experience this year. It'll help you a lot, particularly in your career and in your relationships.

What will help even more is the growth, or development (or establishment) of spiritual knowledge and wisdom. Because you may be in a million places (mentally, physically, emotionally) at once, you're gonna need to recharge somehow. Steadying that brain of yours is not gonna be easy. Not to mention that how you relate to others, and whether you understand them, will depend highly on what you learn from the department of spirituality.

Now, I'm not instructing you to go off and join some cult or religion to satisfy a need, or desire, for a spiritual awakening or experience. I'm just saying... get in touch with yourself and what you really need at your core,  truly listen to what it is your soul needs to do or what it needs in general.

Also, try and get to know others who possess far far less than you do.

Well, your horizons will broaden one way or the other, in a way most needed. This card is about evolvement, for good or ill, so you might want to stay in control of the new stuff you experience, and recognize that this world is vast and some of you aren't the only ones in it.

In the event you're arrogant, you'll realize you're not as smart, mature, or experienced in some area as you thought you were. You'll get over it.

This is a good year for stimulation. If you've been 'stuck', I can guarantee that 2012 is gonna get you moving. Either because you make the choice to, or because things will change on their own. That means that there is a possibility of relocating, changing jobs/careers, or doing away with certain partnerships (particularly in business dealings, which can include marriage). Moving, or moving on, may not be a choice, but as scary as it sounds... it is for your own good...

If what I just typed up there is right up your alley, please, please do what it takes to change that area of your life by pursuing what you need, be it another kind of job, an apartment/house, whatever it is.

At the same time, you would have a lot of fun exploring different areas, countries, cultures, societies. Make time for travel, even if it's just an hour away.

For the betterment of an aspect of your health, I'd limit time spent with family.  Some Geminis could be pulled or dragged into drama or happenings that are simply not their own, that they have nothing to do with. I'd suggest appearing distracted, expressing nonsense that has nothing to do with anything, or playing dumb whenever your opinion is requested by a relative-- otherwise, you could land yourself in some hot water.

Some of you can ease a burden by asking for help. Thinking about tasks will not get them done. While you're out focusing on the bigger picture, you're gonna need someone to help you with the details. Details may include childcare, domestic help, errand-running, research, etc.

Learning a new language, or strengthening one you started learning but gave up on because you had other things to do, would be highly beneficial. You might need a tutor, though, smart as you are.  A tutor would keep you motivated.  You can find one at a decent rate now, but in the event spending is an issue, see if you can barter/trade for the knowledge.

Gemini, the best opportunities for you will be found outside of the home, outside of your comfort zone.  Do something new, like taking up a wild dance class. Try new things, like foods you've never had before.

Overall, Gemini, your knowledge, wisdom, vision/insight, experience can grow immensely this year, as can your peace of mind... A bus out of town, even, can do your mental health a whole lot of good.

So, what are you waiting for? Get on it already.  And enjoy a rise in popularity (hopefully a good kind)...

Deb's Twelve Days of 2012 Tarot Forecasts: Taurus and The Anchor

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-05T04:23:49Z

Stay your ass put.

Just what you want to hear, right Taurus? Right. Well, let's face it, you're good at it.

The Anchor shows up during a time when one should hunker down and get serious. And settled in. This is a year to commit to whatever and whomever is before us. To focus and give attention to and nurture what is right in front of you. You should be done with searching, seeking, researching, exploring options for now. You've had your fun and freedom, and this year is fresh territory for you. Territory where you can cultivate what you want, and make with your surroundings whatever you wish.

Get excited about all this, because it's not like you'll have much of a choice in the matter. See, the Anchor represents something keeping you right where you are. An obligation, a task, a project, a job, a relationship, or a burden. And, well, whatever it is, it's not going away until you deal with and accept it (unfortunately, you're not always good at this). In fact, the more you ignore it, overlook it, pretend the load is not there and not on your shoulders and mind, think that others are gonna go ahead and do things your way, the weight on you will just get heavier and heavier and heavier... and more obvious and annoying.. until the point in which it brings your spirits down (which is not where you want to go).

See, here's the mighty fun life-twist for you: confronting your obligation, burden, problem, task, project, relationship, job, and accepting/dealing with it will translate to your freedom. Ensuring not just your happiness and growth but the happiness and growth of others, too, will translate to your success.

And before you think that this year will be as easy as saying "OK, got it", I've got news for you: you're just getting started. You just got here. And you have a whole lotta shit to do.

But the best part, Taurus, of all this is that your commitment, your staying power, your hardwork, your persistence and effort, your knowledge-- it will all pay off for you. Again, provided that you're not just cultivating fresh territory all for yourself. That's too easy. Share. Be considerate. Set the right example.

Besides, you'll be good at establishing a sense of community and belonging.

I'd put off on-seas travel (yep, that's no lavish cruisey) unless it's absolutely necessary. Try and stay local this year, if you can. If not, just take precautions if traveling by boat or ship. Or go-go by train, car, plane. Don't forget any shots or meds.

Knowing what's best for others, Taurus, is fine. Showing it is better, and who better than you to showcase quality?

Someone will prove to be your rock, too. That's gotta be good news.

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Deb's Twelve Days of 2012 Tarot Forecasts: Aries and The Star

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-04T06:39:24Z

"Patience, Daniel-san."

Aries: What a fine 2011 you've had, eh, trying to make sense out of an area of your life, be it finances, a relationship, family, or whatever else. Balancing your needs with the needs of others, your wants with others' wants, which hasn't been easy. You made some big decisions last year, perhaps you even hit a milestone, and I just hope they were all the right experiences. Because this year, 2012, is about making sparks through them. Making your mark. Shining brightly in areas of creativity, work, relationships. You should be able to afford to become inspired, and you should have the capability to inspire others. You should be in a position to use your experiences to your advantage and become more expressive. You should be able to plan and prepare for the long-term, for the future, from here on out.

The opposite involves an explosion. An interruption. A drastic change of plans, which you'd rather not hear about at the moment no matter how adventurous you might be. Fortunately, this you know there is potential for...

Stars are situated far far away.

And your star (or goal, target, prize, etc) could be so far away it leaves you feeling hopeless, cold, like a failure. I'd suggest some of you release how you feel, what you think, what your goals are, to a trusted friend, relative, colleague, superior, mentor, assistant, counselor, or therapist. A trusted individual who can and will give you time and attention.

Respect those who cannot assist you the way you prefer at this time. Don't push it. It's not attractive.

And Aries, that's how you REALLY feel, what you REALLY think, and what your goals REALLY are that should be expressed, not what anyone else feels or thinks is fine and dazzling. Not what would make you appear sane, balanced, mature, "cool", "on top of things", sophisticated, etc. It's OK to allow others to help and/or guide you. DO NOT make conditions and situations hopeless or tiring for yourself, by yourself. Do not wait too long to do what needs to be done. Do not let fatigue, depression, jealousy, and/or anger to consume you either. (And, by the way, there are people in the world you can actually trust.)

You're loaded, hon, with energy, all year long, and that's ALL kinds of energy-- the good, the bad, the ugly. Take it and share it with grace, because it could very easily be taken as an intrusion, invasion, or a general act of disrespect.

You're also pretty ambitious this year, with no clear sense of direction. It's OK. You need to remember that success won't happen overnight. Not a chance, because success doesn't come with a schedule. It doesn't arrive when you want it. Not to mention, we don't always know precisely where we're headed, how long a goal will take, or what's coming next. Sometimes our goals entail getting a little lost, confused, discouraged, or derailed, whether in our thoughts, in our work, in relations, or simply during an unpredictable or trying time.

Success is also not about putting your name out there, but about growing into somebody you truly (in your heart, soul, and mind) aspire to become. That's what success is, and it's a consistent feeling if it is real.

So a goal might take anywhere from six months to six years. So what? Just what the hell is your hurry? I'll tell you what: if time is of the essence, if there is a sense of urgency about what you set out to do, I'd rethink your goal, pronto. Because speeding can lead to crashing, and when we crash we sure do burn. Or, at the very least, we suffer an unnecessary embarrassment.

So, put out the fire in your ass. Work on your true wish. Miracles will happen when they will be most needed. Those intended (and in the right position) to help and guide you will do so. And that's that.